Many Nigerian ladies will end up singles for life because of some or all of the following reasons.
- 1. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating
Because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to.
Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
- 2. Your Friends Run Your Life
How do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?
- 3. You Give Everything Out During Dating
As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single.
Such privileges include and not limited to: constant s3x and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant s3x, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend?
And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
- 4. You Package Yourself Wrongly
In your attempt to look s3xy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times.
If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively s3xy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s.*x urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.Remember, not all clothes that look s3xy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
- 5. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Upbringing
Definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘s3xy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions.
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In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, is a the lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.